One Year Away: What I’m Taking Back

I guess I’m returning to the UK with a lot more than just souviners. I learnt so much: from experiences, people we met, my kiddos.. and this blog is somehow going to be a way of summing up all of the nuggets of knowledge I’ve gained along the way.

Firstly, + amazingly this is a pretty big one for me, I’ve learnt that it’s okay to cry. Really, it’s okay. You don’t become any weaker just because there is water protruding from your eyes – you just become more human. I use to be totally against crying in front of others but now I’ve cried in front of friends, Giselle (lots of times) + even in front of my kiddos when we were praying about a tragedy that happened. It’s good for the soul sometimes to let everything out! I’m talking to myself when I say people won’t view you any different.

If you don’t ask, the answer is always no! This I’ve learnt from multiple experiences where we’ve wanted to do something then been like “hmm, but can we?” Well my advice is always just to ask. Whether it be hitchhiking (maybe not this one actually, care is necessary), asking to use the bathroom in a supermarket, a spontaneous coffee tour or getting a discount for something. These are all things that actually happened + it’s all because some kind soul said yes! (+ it’ll surprise you how many kind souls there are in the world)

This ties into the next one that you can be that kind soul. It’s so easy to be the one who says yes, to be the one who makes someone’s day. Seriously – give it a try! Someone needs help? Offer your services! Someone is sad? Give them a hug!Whatever you like to receive you also need to dish out. Something as simple as buying someone a chocobanano at lunch or sharing delicious food you’ve made (food is always good) can actually make someone’s day. I know because this has happened to me! So let’s all work on doing little acts of kindness everyday to seriously increase the happiness in the world in a big way👊

Something crazy I learnt is this: kids aren’t scary. They are curious, they may ask some weird questions or say some funny things but one thing they aren’t is scary. I came out here not really being a fan of kids + as it’s probably apparent to see I’ve come away being obsessed with them! Not just the younger ones either, I adore the older ones too + honestly am second doubting myself about whether I want to work with kids when I’m older or not. Before Honduras it was a big fat no, but now I’m willing to see where this crazy road is going to take me!

“I don’t know what lies around the bend, but I’m going to believe the best does” ~ Anne of Green Gables

There are so many things that are much more important than what clothes you wear/what type of iPhone you have. Materialism is overrated. The most important thing in life is experiences, relationships + finding your passion. I had this huge life crisis when my chemistry teacher asked us before we picked our GCSE options what our passions were. He seemed sort of shocked that we hadn’t found them yet and said we needed to invest time to find them before college and subsequently, university. Although I respected him loads I’m gonna have to say I’d disagree with him on this one. Passion isn’t something you can generate. It takes time + I’m not even sure if I’ve found mine yet! At least I can say, in some respects, I have a much clearer view of what I want out of my life now! I adore working with kids but something about this year has showed me that law is what is really in my heart + what I want to study☺️

Adults and children alike both have no idea what the heck is going on. You’d think I’d have become more adult during this adventure + yes, to an extent, I would say that is true. However, what I’ve learnt is that sure some adults learn how to pay taxes + they may have student loans but they equally are just are confused about what’s going on as we are! Sometimes when there’s a problem I try + search for a more adulty adult but I’ve equally realised I can be that adult + solve a lot of my own problems – wooo, girl power!

Even if you have nothing, there’s something you can share. You have an apple tree in the yard? Fill a bag + pass them out at work/to your neighbours. This also applies for smiles + nice words, which we all have the capacity for in abundance.

I was super preppy in the UK. Super. Looking back on pictures of how I dressed I can believe how “typical Cambridge” it was! I’m now the kind of person to come home + get straight into yoga pants + an oversized tshirt. I’m not so fashionable but I am extremely comfy! If I’m not dressed for sports I tend to look like a tomboy in my dungarees (sorry mumma) but it’s cool😉

There’s something amazing to be said for just sitting back, watching a sunset/sunrise + just appreciating this incredible world we live in. Some of my favourite travelmoments have been when we’ve been watching sunsets/rises on beaches. Whereas my favourite moments in Yam Yam are just all sitting around the ornilla: chatting, laughing + appreciating each other’s companies.

Finally; I’m no longer afraid to try new things. Whether it be a tropical fruit, weird dish or new dance – bring it on!! I’m going to take back that fearlessness + knowledge that trying something (even if it’s just once) is pretty much always a good thing.

Thank you to all the people on this journey, thank you to every moment I’ve had but especially thank you to Honduras, the county that holds my heart.

From a little blue house in Yamaranguila,

Charlie x

Top Tips

~How To Survive Here~

We’ve now been here over 9 months and it’s safe to say we’ve learnt from our various mistakes we’ve made (me probably making the most of these). So, if you’re a future volunteer or if you’re planning to be spending some time here I have some friendly advice for you:

1. Bring a GoPro/action camera with you. This is SO useful for your travels, whether you plan to jump off cliffs, kayak on lakes, leap into waterfalls or banana boat! Trust me, you’ll wanna record it.

2. You need a lot of blue tac. I had nowhere near enough with me (but luckily the lovely Giselle gave me some) because not only do you wanna put up your pictures from home, you also wanna stick up love notes/letters you receive during the year because they are SO cute! We found when we first stepped into our apartment we were faced with lots of large wall spaces with absolutely nothing on + some blue tac with pictures/drawings is a really easy way to get that homely feel.

3. Spare earphones are a necessity. You’ll quickly learn the earphones they sell here are super fake + barely work for a month (even if they claim to be legit). Electronic items in general (chargers, etc) are just better to get in the UK.

4. Don’t be afraid to haggle. You can get a better price on pretty much anything: veggies, clothes when thrifting, haircuts or even items in a more legit shop. As long as you’re not afraid to ask, most people will move the price down!

5. Bring a portable charger. Power here is super inconsistent (especially during rainy reason when we seem to lose it 5x a day) + you’re gonna want a way to charge your stuff, especially on the odd occasion it’s out for 24 hours!

6. Seriously, start a journal. Personally I love being able to look back on my memories of this year (since when am I ever going to have an opportunity like this again?) + it’s actually really entertaining to look back on what I thought about my kids at the start. So, start writing down all those little funny things that happen!

7. I cannot stress this one enough after living with Giselle for nearly 10 months: bring out less clothes than you think you need. Especially in this project with our access to very cheap thrift shops – loads of “super cute gap year clothes” just aren’t necessary. I came out with the bare minimum (some t-shirts, 2 jeans, a pair of shorts) + although I’ve bought some stuff, I have had no issues with living with less – it’s actually been kinda nice! You really don’t have a use for that ridculous amount of clothing you are probably hoarding in your home.

8. However, make sure you have enough bras, pants + socks – these are not even worth buying out here so we’ve never done it, just make sure to bring some nice ones from home (+ try not to break them on the pila!)

9. Don’t be afraid to try new things. Even nance has to be tried once! (though it’s disgusting) There’s some stuff that looks really weird (shoutout to the strange Honduran fruits we’ve had) but it’s sometimes really surprised me + sometimes just made for a funny story because it’s been gross but hey, it’s all character building, right?!

10. Fluids, fluids, fluids – the advice I was given from a past volunteer before coming out here. It’s the truth. I’d really recommend bringing a reusable water bottle because although bags of water are cheap it’s easier just to have a bottle to fill up + I assure you, you’re gonna wanna drink a lot of fluids, especially in those hot projects.

11. On the topic of water, I’ve never experienced rain like the rain in Yam – you gotta bring some good sturdy shoes that you aren’t afraid to get wet. I use some black vans everyday for work + have never had an issue whereas Giselle bought out some black pumps that quickly died on the terrain out here + left us searching for more once the sole came away.

12. Learn a couple of those fun kid songs – think baby shark, bungalow, etc – fun jingles that you can teach your kid at the end of a lesson if there’s spare time/if you get thrown into a class where you have extra time/aren’t sure what to do. If not songs, little games work well too! My kiddos love anything interactive/where I get to look stupid dancin around for their personal entertainment. Ah, teaching young grades.

13. The last tip is something no one ever mentioned to us when we came here + that is this: you need to deworm yourself here. Sounds gross I know + yeah, even with all those jabs you got, you’re gonna have to do this too. Parasites/worms are just a part of life here. The normal advice is every 6months (ish) which I didn’t realise was necessary but yup, it really is, even if you completely avoid the tap water. Luckily they aren’t expensive + can be found in any pharmacy☺️

It was super weird to have to think about this + write it because honestly it doesn’t feel like it will ever end (+ I’m hoping that’s true) but I hope there’s some helpful words in here! If not that, maybe the realities of being an overseas volunteer will be funny to you. Regardless of any issues, it’s still been the most incredible time. Probably a tip I should have mentioned is just to have a positive attitude + be willing to laugh about all the bad stuff (power outages, clinic trips, lack of water) because with that, you won’t need to bring anything else here with you!

From a little blue house in Yamaranguila,

Charlotte

1/3 To Go..

~9 Months~

It feels like it was only the other day that I was writing one of these + it is safe to say the 9th month has seriously raced past! The scary part is now we only have one section left to finish writing in our booklets, although we did spend a long time completing our 9 month sections.

When I look back at the first 3 months + the blog I put out it all sound so childish. What, we didn’t realise buying cinnamon in a plastic bag wouldn’t be legit? There was a time when we had mould problems? Hilariously, that was the month we gave the neighbours some banana crumble which they hated (+ I’m now craving as I write) and also the month of our 5km race! These are now only fond memories which really does make me wanna cry – how does time pass so quick? One thing I really do miss though is the safety of knowing how much time we had left. I’m so sad because I’m sitting here realising we only have just 1 month left here, in Yamaranguila.

Once we got back from Teguc we were welcomed to a extremely chilly couple of days in Yam as there was a particularly strong cold front taking over the skies. This left us wearing an unimaginable amount of layers + me looking weird with my scarf protecting my ice cube like ears, which Isaac found rather hilarious. Thankfully on the Monday Shawna gifted us some soup at lunch and this warmed with a book really was the comforting break I needed.

We were also able to enjoy amazing strawberry pie from her as well as a spinach + cheesy chicken so huge thanks to Shawna for being our food mumma out here!! I must admit my weakness really lies with Honduran food which, seeing as I don’t have much longer to enjoy, I’m trying to have as much as possible! Especially when it’s a gift from the lovely lunch ladies who I always chat to whilst heating whatever meal we’re having that day. Thanks to them I had a yummy tortilla, beans + some chorizo the other day😋

Sometimes though this can take a turn for the worst, such as our disastrous baleada experience in La Fuente – a place I previously raved about being the best. I’m gonna assume there was a change of reciepe because this time they were just too much. Blegh. I think it was the beans that were really nasty + strong so the 1st half was yummy but from there it was a struggle which left us feeling gross.

^the calm before the baleada storm

More food – but this time from my wonderful kiddos! Emily + Marian often come to find me at recess which means I try in vain to decline delicious treats from them. Cookies, tortillas con cajada, Pringles + plantain are thrust in my face + since I now know it’s rude to refuse food from Hondurans I enjoy these with them – as well as trying to share my banana pancakes. Marian wasn’t too keen on these, her comment being “this is ugly… but it’s good.” At least we had a good laugh over them!

One of my favourites was a cutie from Nivelación handed me this half eaten watermelon as a gift.. thanks Cristhel! Also, during a nivelacion lesson (where I take the younger kids + we work in the cafeteria) one of the lunch ladies walked over + gifted me a bag of peaches!! There’s always little surprises here to brighten your day☺️

Okay let’s finally move on from food (although it’s one of the highlights of my life here for sure!).

Issac’s latest obsession is Thomas the Tank Engine. This leaves him speaking in an adorable little British accent – I’ll definitely never get homesick now!

Since finishing War + Peace (yay!) I’ve been reading loads! My current count of books read is up to: …

I celebrated my International Day with 2nd Grade for the Day of Creativity + Innovation which was nothing but a bunch of fun. Massive well done to my kiddos for all their hard work! If you wanna read about it + watch a super cute video, go to this link: https://helpcharlottehelphonduras.wordpress.com/2018/04/23/2nd-grade-superheroes/

That night we flew off (figuratively speaking, in the back of a truck) to La Unión + had such an incredible weekend with the girls – thanks to them for the adventures💙 that tale is written about here: https://helpcharlottehelphonduras.wordpress.com/2018/04/27/travel-tales-19-wild-weekend/

As always, school wasn’t quite exactly normal as this moth we celebrated Spanish Day + had a Spelling Bee! There was also SAG (student annual gathering) in Teguc which is a competition over a huge range of events between all of the Vida schools. Our school, being practically the baby of the group, could only send 6th + 7th Graders who were up against those from 12th but we still won some medals + did an ace job anyways. Go Yam!

For this week, 4 of our staff were out as they were in Teguc helping which saw me covering 4th Grade a lot. After the disaster that was the first day where I felt like I had no control over the class I came back the next day with a fresh attitude and a lot more strict teaching routine which really helped! I can’t say I’m really good at being a strict teacher because I’m so use to being crazy with the younger grades but this is something you really need with the older kids. I ended up having a good week with 4th + even managed to give a math lesson so I was pretty happy with myself by the end! It also resulted in some funky pictures when Kevin stole my phone in class:

Spanish Day saw the entire school cramming into the cafeteria for an assembly led by the Honduran staff. There was a game/presentation from each grade as well as jokes, a mini spelling bee + some history lessons. I spent the whole time with lots of my kiddos all trying to sit in my lap as well as chatting with the 3 older boys from Nivelación. It was a really funny experience + afterwards Carlos made me smile by saying “you are very special with your kids” – awwwh!!

^pictures the school took of the younger kids, then 2nd Grade then the older ones🎉

On the day of the Spelling Bee I was unfortunately really ill (keep reading to discover more) but I got told by everyone it was really sweet! I’m super proud of all my kiddos, especially Nivelación who have only been learning English since January + rocked it👊 when I tested them in class they all did amazing so I’m one very happy mother hen!

^my stomach the morning after

The sickness I speak of was another allergic reaction I discovered just after 3 in the morning. Again I awoke madly itching and in a sleepy state I stumbled to the bathroom to find my body covering in super angry bumps – much larger than the first time. This time they were also accompanied by a burning sensation that made my whole body itch and saw me laying cool flannels over my legs. My wonderful mumma thankfully videocalled me + at her suggestion the equally wonderful Giselle (who I accidentally woke up) made me a baking soda + water concoction to place over my frazzled legs – thanks buddy!! This time, I was feeling strong + decided not to call Jake but try to wait it out. After catching 40 minutes more sleep, when the alarm went off I realised to my horror there was no way I could go into school. The rashes were still huge + I felt like death after barely any sleep so I waved goodbye to Giselle + spent a rather sad day alone at home. As always, the family were wonderful + gave me water as well as lunch of spaghetti. The best part, though, was returning to school the next day for all the love my kiddos gave me.

I wasn’t the only sick volunteer this month as we finally made our first clinic trip for Giselle. Basically, we were walking down the street where a man was soldering a sign onto a shop, creating sparks that flew out into the street. As we walked past I felt something hit my eye but carried on, then realised I’d lost Giselle, who was standing in the road playing with her eye. I guided her to the curve + we spent 15 minutes attempting to dislodge the item causing discomfort. The pulperia we were outside of kindly let us use their mirror + eventually the pila as well but nothing would work. We had to give in + try get to the clinic as at this point she couldn’t open one eye at all. With her hands clinging onto my shoulders I tried my best to guide us through the city to the clinic we know on the otherside + once there we were thankfully seen straight away. It was my turn to play doctor as I had the rather important job of shining the incredibly bright light in Giselle’s eye so the doctor could poke around with her fingers. The dirt was easily removed + we could breathe a sigh of relief – Giselle could see! We may, at times, worry our parents to death but at least we can say our lives are never boring here!

I’ve ended up covering 2nd Grade for 2 Fridays this month which was nothing but fun for me. I adore those kiddos + although it can be hard trying to get 34 kids to work as well as Isaac, who is his own challenge, it’s so worth it. I always reiceve lots of hugs, love notes + my heart is so full at the end of the day. One Friday we did our Mothers Day activity (a very sweet heart shaped card with a flower inside) so for devotional I got the kiddos to draw their mums (using mine as an example) + say why they loved them. Then we made our cards which resulted in some very cute pictures before a crazy session of the Hockey Pokey that 2nd Grade never seem to get bored of.

Also, it was the assistants turn to do chapel last week about Mother’s Day. This saw Abi doing an amazing PowerPoint presentation + the rest of us chipping in where we could: Giselle + I taught a song we’d made the night before entitled “I love my mummy” which I think went pretty well! Here’s some cute pictures we snapped after:

We had our final parent-teacher conference which is kind of scary to think about, but saw me being with Anna in Nivelación, chatting about spelling. It felt weird to be an actual teacher but I was pretty proud of myself for managing to survive the whole morning discussing the kids in Spanish. The parents were so lovely + you can really tell how much it means to them, especially when they get emotional. Also, I’m incredibly proud of 2nd Grade as we had 11 students on Honour Roll! Wooo!

^free cinnamon swirls each teacher got😍

Pictured below, the semi-flooded church + a duck paddling in the newly installed pool outside:

I also tried something new by accompanying the family to church for the Día de la madre celebration. This was a really lovely service with a hilarious drama one of the daughters, Cindy, stared in as well as a big prayer for all of our mummas. The surprise of the incredible “merienda” we received was super yummy that we enjoyed in the church as the storm pumpleted down outside + semi-flooded the room. Nothing ever goes smoothly here but isn’t that why I love Honduras so much? Yup!

^how does this constitute a snack?!

After that we paddled home through the streams of water (goodbye, nice looking converse) + were treated to an 2nd lunch of soup.

A warming soup + some coffee in bed made the rainy day seem a lot less dreary as we relaxed, writing lots.

There’s been some wonderful moments with my kids already this week but my favourite was the wonderful gift Iris decided to give me today. A little cup filled with sweets that says “you’re great!” Along with a beautiful note💙💙 I appreciate these kids SO much!

As our 10th month marks the last full month we will be living in Yam Yam I decided I need to focus on some things…

⁃ Running

Since we have plans to scale volcano aticlan in Guatemala I feel I need to start some sort of training so I don’t die halfway up. As well as this I can’t be going to uni + trying to play sport if my body has been súper use to not working out + consuming way too many tortillas, speaking of which…

⁃ Honduran Food

I imagine we will be consuming as much of this as possible which is for obvious reasons! Firstly, it’s delcious. Do I need any more reasons? Secondly, there’s no way I’ll be able to have access to many of the delicacies here in England… sadness…

⁃ Appreciating Yam Yam

We have plans to film videos, go on lots of walks + of course spend time with our Honduran family as Yam had been nothing but good to us. I’m going to try my hardest not to be sad that we’re leaving but instead live in the moment.

Expect lots of sentimental blogs in this last month regarding my kids, the family + our wonderful life here. Sending good vibes to all!

From a little blue house in Yamaranguila,

Charlotte x

La cultura de los catrachos

~Cultural Differences~

Honduras living is definitely different to what I imagined: from how we eat, to the extremeness of the macho culture to even the general friendliness of the people here. Things that once shocked me now seem completely normal + I’m already anticipating how weird it will be to return to the culture of the UK.

When we were on training on the little Isle of Coll, laughing at the India volunteers who had to eat curry with their hands, I never thought the joke would end up on us. Hondurans traditionally don’t eat with cutlery and in fact for the first few months we were the only two with cutlery at the table. Instead, our department of Intibuca uses tortillas how I imagine naan bread is used, to scoop the food up. Recently I was eating a burrito with one of our Honduran friends who was completely shocked + had a good laugh at me picking up my knife and fork to eat it. He said I was insulting his culture (una broma) + we proceeded to eat only with our hands which definitely isn’t easy but is a lot more fun – plus I now see what they mean about food tasting nicer this way! My only problem is imagining what it’ll be like when I’m back in England + I go out + start eating using my hands…

Although things happen here, Honduras is really not as dangerous as everyone told me. I was relayed horror stories and made to promise I’d be extremely careful to ensure I wasn’t committing myself to an early death. Whilst Honduras certainly isn’t like the UK, it’s not some sort of country where death awaits you around every corner. We are careful, as you always should be, but all I’ve experienced from people here is pure kindness. One example of this is that one day I was carrying the 5 gallon bottle of water we buy weekly to sustain our need for H2O when we passed a man waiting with his bike at the pulpería. He called over to us, asked Giselle to take his bike + took the water out of my hands. What came as a surprise to me seemed so normal to him as he helped us hugely by carrying the water to our gate, bidding a farewell + cycling on his way. People here are generally super wonderful! We’ve formed so many amazing friendships I’ll treasure forever, a few of which are pictured below:

When I say people, I’m obviously excluding some of the men.. we were warned about a macho culture but not to the degree I’ve experienced. Whistles + shouts are not the only thing you receive as a gringa, there’s also kisses, touching of your body when you least expect/want it + the occasional proposal. Joys of Honduras!

One of the parts of culture I tend to struggle with as well a little is Honduran Time. Your friend tells you that you are going to leave in 10 minutes? I gaurentee 20 minutes later you will still be sat in your house waiting. Everything here is very chilled, which is a wonderful thing, but can be such a pain when you want something to be done! When we chat with friends they are amazed that when you agree to meet someone at a certain time, let’s say 11am, a British person may be there 5 minutes early, whereas a Honduran may be there at 11:30… my top tip is just to tell your friends to be there 30 minutes before you actually want to meet😉 then, even when they are late, they are actually bang on time.

Time isn’t the only thing Hondurans are late on. The fashion here has a pretty rustic feel. To buy things new out here is weird. The vast majority of the shops are second hand + that’s just the norm – hence why Giselle + I have found so many clothes for so cheap. I can imagine us going back to the UK + not buying any clothes, deeming them all to be overpriced (as they are). This is one part of Hondy I’ll miss for sure!!

However, a really fun part of Honduran culture is that our hsre sharing really does mean caring. If it’s not love notes then it’s food that’s thrust upon me. Our adopted family out here have been nothing but wonderful, helping us whenever we’ve needed it, taking me to Teguc + always providing delicious food for us! Likewise, my kiddos always overwhelm me with hugs, food + hundreds of notes all of which I adore💙 take note from the Hondurans: if you love someone, let them know it!!

One taboo subject here is the use of condoms and just sex in general is not a subject to be spoken about. Coming from the liberal nature of England, where this isn’t an issue, it’s super strange for me to be in a place where the morning after pill and abortions are illegal yet prostitution is legal. When we were in Teguc we saw quite literal crowds of women in skimpy clothes lining the streets, waiting for their customers. However, to buy a packet of condoms in a pulperia is a really uncomfortable act for both persons involved. This stark contrast in attitudes is a part of the culture I can’t say I was expecting but has certainly been interesting to learn about.

Lots of these aspects of the culture are mainly due to the fact that Honduras is a lot more religious of a country. In the UK there is such a variety of religions that you could have a room with 5 people + they may all believe something different. For me, this cultural diversity is a good thing as different people bring different things to the country. Here though, people are one of two: catholic or evangelical, being very devot in these. Examples of this that fly into my mind are the 6 hour church service we attended with our neighbours (I was ill so we lasted 3), the fact they go Wednesday night, Tuesday morning (5am) + Sunday. It’s something super different for me but what I would say is it’s definitely opened my mind + I’ve been given the opportunity to see the best parts of religion, especially working in a Christian school. I even took part in a march for Bible Day – something I never thought I’d do!

Hondurans can seriously braid. No one informed me of this before I came out here but most days I’m shocked by the hairstyles my kiddos rock at school with the complex, intertwined plaits that cover their heads. Our family have attempted to show us how to do this but more often than not it ends up with them braiding our hair, as shown in these serious throwback pictures:

Dancing is a big deal here + a more positive aspect of the culture. Traditional dances are performed in huge colourful dresses that can be lifted by the sides up to the head! The vast majority are partner dances with the men stomping their feet lots + being very macho, as per usual. However these colourful shows are a joy to watch + something I’d highly reccomend.

Honduran slang is something we’ve picked up relatively well (unlike dancing) + never fails to make me laugh. Here’s a breakdown of our most used phrases, that we’ve picked up through kids at school, the family + chats with Megan:

aay no – used when something bad has happened, the Honduran version of “oh no!”

Puchaaa – the Honduran version of “Oh my goodness”

Quecke – I’ve heard this being used as thanks, bye + occasionally when people ask “como esta?” The reply is “todo quecke”

Vaya pues – used the same as the Spanish use “vale”

Nombre – The shortened version of “no hombre” which is mainly used when kids don’t wanna do work!

https://youtu.be/H5Et_EZfSYo

You know how we have that thing in the UK when someone asks us for directions + we lift up our finger to point them in the right direction? Well, Hondurans use their mouths to point. Especially common amongst men, it does make asking where things are a lot more fun for us. They throw their lips in the direction they are talking about, often whilst they are saying the word!

As you will know by now, we don’t use washing machines/dryers. I’d now find it pretty weird not to grab my little bar of soap + head out to the pila every time I have a dirty item of clothing. Getting to hang up clothes can be an annoyance in rainy season but our view from the roof it’s always a part of my day that I love.

Hondurans shout/whilstle for attention. At you, at buses, at each other – it’s totally the norm here. One time we were sitting in a comedor + I heard someone whilsting and shouting “ey!” but didn’t imagine it would be at me. When I turned around + made eye contact I realised the truth was it had been at me + I was suddenly in a conversation about where we were from. Opps. As well as this I find in general Hondurans are super forward, asking all kinds of questions that would be deemed “rude” in Britain. Whether it’s meet curiosity or the culture I can’t tell but I must admit I’ve been shocked many a time by the questions we’ve received.

^ little David who, on seeing this on my bed, picked it up + asked if he could have it to play with, not realising what it was😂

Tampons are kinda taboo out here. From speaking with our catracho friends I’ve learnt that out here girls aren’t expected to use them until they have lost their virginity – which for the majority they feel should be only after marriage. The liberal nature of the UK is all too apparent when we make comments about how in our county girls can use them at any age they want without problems. We’ve had similar problems when we’ve made comments about being comfortable with homosexuality + being confronted with the opinions that this is somehow “wrong” which obviously we disagree with whilst trying to respect their culture – it can be difficult sometimes for sure!

One thing the Brits could learn from the Catrachos is the art of truck riding. Once you’ve done this once, you’ll never want to sit in a car again. The first time I wore a seatbelt out here was in a posh taxi in Teguc + I only did it because my mumma did it first. I actually now really wish this wasn’t illegal in the UK because there’s no better feeling than zooming along with the wind in your hair + the incredible Honduran countryside whizzing by.

^above: an example of a truly beautiful hitchhiking experience and below: an example of just how many people can fit in a truck

You’re white. People assume you have money. This is just the truth out here. You’ll be ripped off for things, the prices seem to go up hugely when we’re around + we’ve had discussions when we deem this completely unfair. The way we’ve got around this problem is by integrating more into the community, for example the fruit/veggie man we go to every week that’s lovely to us + always throws in something free!

The national anthem is kinda a big deal here. They play it all the time + all the kids have to learn it in school. My favourite reaction is the neighbours shocked faces when they ask us to perform the British one + we simply answer that we don’t really know it. I can perform a couple of lines for them but then I sort of trail off into nothingness… whereas they all ace Tu Bandera – with hand actions too! It’s safe to say they are a lot more patriotic and so they should be, Hondy is a wonderful little country.

https://youtu.be/cCivjeWJ7Mg

Saying good morning/afternoon is super common here as you walk through the street. You’ll call out a “hola”, “adiós” or “nos vemos” to pretty much everyone – regardless of if you know them or not. For me this really helps feel more comfortable in the area because it feels like such a nice little community.

Quite possibly my favourite part about Honduras is that life is more chilled. After school the kids don’t sit on their iPads/phones, aimlessly scrolling through social media. They tend to play games outside together or rope us into basketball or football – which often we fail at! On Sundays we often use to play a big group game of football in the street, using rocks for goal posts + having to pause every time a car came near. It’s these relaxed times I’m going to miss the most.

Honduran culture is full of beauty, sharing + fun and truly I’ve had an incredible experience living here in Yamaranguila for the past 9 months + learning about it. I’m so adjust to how liberal Britain is that sometimes I struggle with this aspect of Honduras – as well as the forever hated catcalls – but besides this I think there are some really funky things Honduras brings to the table of culture. So let’s all start eating with our hands, right?

From a little blue house in Yamaranguila,

Charlotte

Cocina conmigo #3 – Surprise Coconut Curry

I can’t say I’ve ever been a chef, I’m not really a whiz in the kitchen, but this dish is one of the very few I’m genuinely quite proud that I make out here. This ones a little more complicated (I just mean it has more ingredients) so whatcha gonna need is:

⁃ coconut milk (20L at any good pulpería)

⁃ Rice

⁃ Sweet potatoes

⁃ Normal potatoes

⁃ A variety of veggies such as: carrots, broccoli, cauliflower, green beans

⁃ Garlic

⁃ Onion

⁃ Curry powder + paprika

⁃ Stock cube

⁃ Lentils (surprise!)

Step 1: get a big ol’ pot of water boiling + whilst you wait use this time to cut those veggies any which was you want – but I prefer slightly bigger chunks for a curry. Once these are chopped + the water is listo, throw them in! Also add some consomé de pillo + your lentils (around 1-2 handfuls).

Step 2: As your veggies are doing their work chop onion + garlic to fry these. Once they’ve been frying a while, like maybe 2 minutes (I’m not so exact), I throw in some paprika + curry powder to flavour.

Step 3: You now should have some cooked veggies + a pan full of oniony goodness. What I tend to do at this point is drain my veggies + put some more water on to boil.

Step 4: weigh your rice (we use a mug) + add it to the boiling water, along with some garlic + turn down the oniony pan before adding your veggie/lentil concoction to it, throwing in the coconut milk, some extra spices + letting it simmer

Step 5: once the rice is cooked you can drain it + dish it out – sometimes when I have extra coconut milk I throw it on the rice to bring back those Belizan vibes

Step 6: mix the love through that veggie/sauce then generously lather it onto the rice + enjoy!

^ a very happy charlotte with her curry

Step 7: if you’re feeling fancy (which we’re not because we’re poor) you can always put some herbs or something on the top. You know, just to finish off the look!

Hoping you all enjoy the next surprise coconut curry dish you make + realise that volunteers can live off more than just pasta + tomato sauce😉

All the best from a little pink kitchen in Yamaranguila,

Charlie

Travel Tales #20 – I’m a Volunteer, Get Me Out Of Here!!

~Amapala~

Thursday we were told that as well as Tuesday we would also have Monday off. Luckily, the power went at 3 which left us madly calling our La Unión girls to see what they were doing before deciding to go to Amapala. After we taught our lesson with the neighbours we were in bed at 8, due to the power still not being back, with alarms set for 5am. I woke up at 4:15 to the realisation there was still no power so Giselle got to enjoy a cold shower + then we spent some time in the neighbours kitchen using their hob because their barrio had power back. Banana pancakes were made for recess + the trip, the last of our things were packed, including damp towels (yay for rainy season) then we got the school bus in.

After a crazy but amazing day covering 2nd Grade which ended with lots of hugs, “I Love You”s and “I will miss you”s as well as a mini party in art, I ran to the bathroom + to get water before Giselle + I hopped onto a bus into town. We sat with our students + had a laugh as they showed us cool tricks they could do: from flicking fingers back to putting legs over heads.

It was rainy in La Esperanza + this continued for the entire trip to Teguc, making the bus extremely slow. After Comayagua there was barely any of us left, so I moved to my own double seat, opposite Giselle, to see if I could try sleep. But, due to the terrible bus music and my impatience to reach our destination, I found myself unable to. I’d left my earphones at school so, when the bus lights came on, my book became my only companion, and when not, I took to blogging or watching the intense lightning and rain outside.

At long last we were at the dodgy terminal with Crazy Carlos there to await us with big hugs and kisses. We were taken to the boys house where we surprised them (Robbie’s face was priceless) and ate a very late but very delicious dinner of pastelitos and strawberry licuados with strawberries I gifted the boys. Dinner entertainment including braiding their hair + trying to make me only speak Spanish.

We attempted to have an early night (which meant 3 hours sleep for me) before waking at 4:30 and stumbling around in the dark, trying to ready ourselves. We filled our water bottles + headed with Robbie in a taxi to a different bus terminal (in Teguc they are spread all over the city) where we were met with some impressive abuse. Before we’d even gathered our stuff they were opening the doors, reaching in, shouting all kinds of stuff and stroking my hair. I was so glad to have the other 2 because I quite frankly had no idea what was going on.

We bid our farewells + got on a small bus to take us out of the city where I again tried but failed to sleep so gave myself up to my book. We did make a quick stop which was a relief to use the bathroom as well as purchase very odd fake cheese ritz. Soon we were dropped at the side of the dusty road and, seeing no bus but a sign pointing to Amapala, decided to walk.

Eventually a truck came (relax parents, the driver looked about 90 so we figured it was safe) + we hopped in the back although he could only take us half the way. The incredible views of mountains + fields flashed by as we munched on banana pancakes then took to walking again when we were left at the side of another road. Luckily the bus came super promptly so we got to ride in a bit more comfort down to the very small town of Amapala.

Isla de Tigra is super close and after arguing with some Hondurans who claimed there was no boat to the pier then walking 5m to the right, where there was a boat for the pier, we were soon on said boat – heading to the pier. Ah, Hondurans!

Our first impressions of Amapala were very positive with its colourful streets, beautiful sign and quiet cobbled roads. Mainly people get around the island in mototaxis (I’ve never seen so many) or on quads with the occasional car.

With no accomodation booked we headed to a hotel we had planned to book when we were originally going to come that was located on a little beach. There was sadly no room at the inn so we were taken to what I can only describe as a gated compound with 2 buildings, the larger of which the night guard slept in. The room we were shown was in the smaller, green building that housed a bed and 2 chairs as well as a whole flock of mosquitos and bugs. There was no running water so we were told we could take bucket showers (+ we all know how much I love them) and refill the large buckets of water by sloshinrg water in from a hole in the ground outside. I think it’s clear we weren’t gonna stay here, but the woman had already left so we used the less than hygienic bathroom facilities and hid the key in a concrete slab.

^ less than impressed faces

The sun burned down on us as we made our slow walk along the road, watching the heat rays fly off it in front of us as cows relaxed by the side.

A mototaxi luckily passed + picked us up so we could head back to the centre + try to find accomodation which he suggested in one very expensive house. So, we headed to the tourist office where the main woman was busy making necklaces out of sea shells + another woman kindly showed us a room above a little green house. David let us in + although I can imagine my family freaking out at the state of it – it was perfect for us!

We dumped our things + took a walk around town to get much needed bags of water when fireworks began to pop and boom, about 10m from the pulpería we were in. These are Giselle’s phobia so after waiting a while we took off running in the opposite direction, which was a blessing as we stumbled across a little comedor.

The porch was the seating area so we relaxed in the hammock whilst they prepared + cooked our carne asada in front of us – which was delcious + served with tajadas + chismol. As we were too tired to even consider moving we stayed in the hammock for an hour after (where they thought we were sleeping), having deep chats.

Once we felt strong enough to move we made it back to our hostel to change into swimming costumes + hit up playa grande. With an ice cream in hand we set off in yet another mototaxi to the large beach; which ended up being rather small. The vibes were mega cute as the tide was out so we were free to walk up and down before leaving our bags with a responsible looking Honduran woman as we splashed in the waves.

Suddenly, I turned to Giselle, complaining that my arm was burning. On further inspection it was clear there was a large red patch with a white like running down it. It meant only one thing: jellyfish. I suffered another sting, as did Giselle, + we soon made a swift exit from the water.

Then it was time to eat oranges, draw in the sand + forget our responsibilities for an afternoon. We ate a dinner of baleadas in hammocks watching the sun set + washed it down with bags of water. As we were both shattered + there was no WiFi on the island we headed to bed super early, with me passing out on my bed as Giselle brushed her teeth, too tired to have my sheet over me – regrettable as I woke up with many mosquito bites! We did have to deal with a mini ant infestation on our beds but hey, what’s a holiday without one?

After a long rest we woke up sweating which meant cold mornings showers (about the only time I enjoy this) before walking into town for more bags of water. These we drank sitting on a bench at the pier, people watching + being watched back by curious Hondurans. Once we bought super healthy snacks of oranges + marias we headed to the first beach of the day.

This beach was deserted. Besides a little wooden comedor on one side with the owners who bid us a good morning; we were the only ones on the beach.

Robbie had bought me a Tigo package with some internet so I could tell my mum we were safe (gracias, bud) + there was so much in the package I managed to videocall my Spanish family from a beach in Honduras – pretty cool. The sun was just waaay too intense, even though it was only 10 in the morning, leading to both of us getting a little red. We paddled without going in the sea for fear of our squishy little friends then decided we had to have some shade. 30 minutes of Amapala sun is more than enough! I read, drank water, ate oranges + watched over the beach as slowly more people came.

As we were about to leave around midday we decided a loo trip wouldn’t be a bad idea so once we asked were given paper + the man pointed out the back. After climbing through barbed aire then walking through a sort of field with long dead grass to an abandoned building we realised that wasn’t the bathroom. The bathroom was gonna be Mother Nature, so we found a tree + each kept watch for the other – woo, partner bonding!

Soon we were safely back in the centre + celebrating with cheesecake sandwich ice creams. All of a sudden a woman walked up to us, but by the time I’d place her it was too late. She was the owner of the terrible first accomodation who we’d left a voicemail for the night before but hadn’t realised. Giselle awkwardly said we’d found some friends that we decided to stay with (our best excuse in the moment) + she said fine; but wouldn’t we like to see her paella? We walked into the square + though it smelt amazing prawns left in the sun sounds like a reciepe for distraer to me so we bought mangos off her friend instead.

Then we got another mototaxi to our hotel where Giselle ran in to get money whilst I practised my spanish with the sweet old man. As he was the 1st Honduran I’d seen with blue eyes he started the conversation on this topic (by the way, it’s because the father of his mother’s grandma had blue eyes). He took us back to playa grande which was a transformed place: the tide was up so high the waves were lapping the chairs of the restaurants + if you wanted to move down the beach you had no choice but to slosh through the sea. We sat to eat our mango but after the waves rose more + touched my backpack we decided to find shade + safely in one of the shacks. I bought more bags of water which we felt justified sitting in the hammocks, which we proceeded to do for 2 hours. At one point a drunk man went over to Giselle so she joined me in my hammock where we were asked how old we were (supposedly I look 26) + said we were Hondurans from Santa Barbara (though they somehow ended up thinking we were from France). As the man began to pack up we headed over the road to use 5L bathrooms with a stench that smashed your nose like a punch. Then there was the search for fish which we eventually found for the reasonable price of 100L for the fish, tajadas + chismol stuff. We ate watching the sunset + I must say it was super good😋

Then there was time to kick off our flip flops for a romantic couples walk along the beach, running through the waves, taking pictures + admiring the pink sky spread above us.

The same mototaxi boy as the day before took us back to our apartment where the lovely David fixed our light that wasn’t functioning + we had another early night (we know how to party!), suffocating from the heat. The small fan we had didn’t provide much comfort + I’d really reccomend investing in AC if you go.

^ partners that burn together, stay together

Monday morning I woke up again dripping in sweat at 5am + made some attempts to get back to sleep in the death chamber that was our bedroom. After another walk into town + drinking a litre of water on a different part of the pier area we managed to find a place with desayuno típico with some dodgy rice but yummy beans, cheese + egg. We had to go into the market to find that comedor + ate with a view of the volcano, not too dissimilar to a hotel I went to in Costa Rica. It was high time to get back to the room so we made our way through the cities avoiding the occasional fireworks packed up our things, said a goodbye to David + admitted defeat. Amapala was much too hot for us.

As we were crawling to the pier to find a boat ready to take us off the island we were pointed to the left where we saw, to our amazement, a boat only filled with white people! We got chatting as they were super friendly + it turns out they taught in the International Teguc school, where one of our teachers use to work – small world after all!! They knew Nottingham uni + wished me luck with law (which I’ll need) + when I asked if they thought Teguc was dangerous they said there were some dodgy parts they’d avoid, then named the street with the bus terminal for La Esperanza. Ah, Teguc, how I love you.

^ stuck on a too hot bus

Two very hot buses later we were back in the comfort + (relative) safety of Teguc, ready to see the boys. The bus ended up not going to the terminal so we were forced to exit on a random road + trust a taxi man to take us to their house which thankfully, he did very safely. Once there Robbie had finished an exam so was able to entertain us whilst Daniel was at uni by letting us use the pila to wash clothes. We all enjoyed a huge pasta dish before a visit to their uni which definitely isn’t as beautiful as Nottingham but I can see the appeal. There were some nice walkways, lots of trees (always a necessity for me) + some huge buildings with murals. As we were walking down the street (embarrassing Robbie by giving each other piggy backs, as if we didn’t already stand out as the only 2 gringas) a guy in a semi bumblebee outfit whacked our heads with his soft hammer. We got pictures with him which meant we had to pay a price as he makes funky bins to encourage people to recycle – much needed here.

Robbie made some excellent baleadas for dinner which we enjoyed watching a movie, before catching some sleep. On the Monday we spent a very chilled day in the house, with Giselle making full use of the oven to make shortbread whilst I made banana pancakes. It was only goodbye for a short while as the boys have a break from uni soon to come home – woo!

We survived another taxi to the bus station where it all went smoothly until I got on the bus + realised I couldn’t find my phone. I sprinted off to shouts of the men saying they were leaving + went to ask the ticket man when I saw the bus pulling out of the terminal so rushed back on, stressing like a chicken in Dom Pollo. Thankfully, Giselle found it in my bag (thanks buddy!!) + we enjoyed a peaceful ride home through the beautiful scenery.

Sadly our time here is swiftly coming to a close, with only 1 and 1/2 months left of school (Happy May!) so I’m extremely thankful we managed to fit in some final partner bonding time with our shared holiday. Lots of love to you, Giselle!💙 also huge thanks to the boys for hosting us on such short notice, you guys rock!!

That’s all from a little blue house in Yamaranguila,

Charlotte